| Tell us something about your life
My life is still in the making. New and unique
opportunities are being presented to me daily. I am the only
child of Johnnie R. and Cora W. Anderson. My parents
instilled three things in me that have preceded and followed
me in life. I was taught to value others, there is nothing
that I can't accomplish and to keep a great sense of humor. My
sense of humor has overshadowed the other two points. We
were upper middle-class in the 50's in Niagara Falls, NY. My
father owned the first grocery delivery business in that
area, starting in 1948 with door to door delivery. This grew
into a major concern by 1960. My mother was a master tailor
and seamstress. All of my "good" clothes were
"home made". I enjoyed taking tap dance, piano,
acting and singing lessons. Theatre and singing are my
passions. I was involved for quite a few years with the
African American Cultural Centers Theatre Ensemble. My
greatest accomplishment there was to play in the musical
adaptations of Rasin' and Dunbar. Then having the
opportunity to play the role of "Mama" in A Rasin
In the Sun. I have been in the limelight and I have
been winning contests since I was in diapers. When I find
the newspaper clipping, I will send you a copy.
How did you choose your calling in life? Did it come
spontaneously to you or did it involve lots of introspection
and observation of society?
My calling as Minister was spontaneous. My first glimpse
into my calling was at the age of seven when I saw a little
girl standing on the corner with a tattered sweater and no
boots, in the middle of winter. I begged my mother to give
her one of my coats. She did. I can still see the image of
that little girl. I didn't know what was going on inside of
me at that moment. All I knew is that I had to do
something so she wouldn't be cold anymore. I guess that
started this cycle in my life of always having an abundance
of clothing. Perhaps God knew that I would always want to
keep people clothed and fed. My heart can't take seeing
others suffer for any reason.
Is there any particular incident that you can describe
as a turning point in your life?
The incident that I can remember particularly is at the
age of 15, going to the funeral of a very dear friend, Ruby
Cook. She died at 15 and I didn't have anyone to give me the
answers that I needed. I screamed and cried until I had to
be taken out of the service. I have never felt anguish like
that in my life, before or since. It was shortly after that,
I became more aware of living and being alive and how
important it was to appreciate every day that I am above
ground.
What were the obstacles you faced on your path?
I faced obstacles that I thought were so silly at the
time. The reason I wrote the book "Living Outside
Lines and Limits" was because of the obstacles that
I faced in life. There is one thing that I do know from
experience, many people waste their time trying to keep
others down. I have faced prejudice on every level
imaginable. At the educational level, in the job market and
in the pulpit. Once we get past ourselves, other peoples
opinions won't matter much.
Who supported you, how does your family view your
activities?
I had opposition from my mother and my Aunt for being a
"preacher". Also for not having what they referred
to as a "traditional" job. When I told my mother
that I would never work for one establishment 25 or 30 years
and retire on a pension, she was shocked. I remember my
father saying that working for someone else will only
make the other person rich. I have believed that all of
my life.
Was there a lot of heartburn involved in breaking out
of your traditional family mould and developing your new
role in life?
There wasn't a lot of anything really because they
weren't going to throw me away. They couldn't, I was their
only child. Years after they found out that I wasn't going
to stop, both my parents became the proud parents of Minister
Gloria, the preaching woman. When I became the first
female graduate of the Pastoral and Church Ministries
Program at Houghton College in Buffalo, NY, they were
very proud.
Tell us about Secret Keepers Seminar and Lead Safe
House and your other works.
When I worked as the Director of Pediatric Medical Social
Work at Children's Hospital in Buffalo, NY, I would see
children with a "problem" that I couldn't put my
finger on. I began paying attention to the back in 1980. The
doctors at the pediatric clinic began to test the children
for lead poisoning. To our amazement, there was an
overwhelming and alarming number of young children with
elevated lead levels in their blood. As I found more and
more of my clients with this problem, I started working very
closely with Dr. Mindy Cameron, at Erie County Medical
Center to bring in as many of these children as possible for
them to have a treatment called chelation, a painful process
for taking out lead from the blood.
I heard about a program in NY City that gave families
with children who had lead poisoning, a "Lead
Safe" house to live in while their living quarters were
going through the lead abatement or lead cleaning process.
When I, along with a few others, arrived in NY to see it, we
walked right into a hostile situation involving a domestic
incident. It was not pleasant to say the least. When we
arrived back in Buffalo, I sat down and immediately brought
some key people to the table to see if we could gain a grant
for such a project. I wrote the initial proposal which was
funded for $500,000.00 for two consecutive years without
returning to the negotiation table. Prior to this, I had
initiated the Lead Safe Project for the city. This
project brought 3.5 million dollars and jobs into the city
for the abatement of homes in the inner city. A City
Council legislation was voted on and passed for me to sit,
in an advisory capacity, on the project.
Secret Keepers is a conference idea that began on
December 8, 1995. I had been talking to some young women
after morning prayer at church regarding how their lives
were going and progressing and some of the pitfalls of being
young and single and old and single involved. When I got to
work that day, I fell and broke my neck. As I recuperated
(No, I didn't die and I'm not paralyzed), the plan for a
women's seminar series was formulated. I had plenty of time
to think and hear from God. I didn't want just run of the
mill seminars. The Secret Keeper Seminar is for the
woman who knows she's given her life away and wants to get
it back. It is for the woman who is in the corporate
arena and has been told that that she had gone as far as she
can go. It is for the woman who has her own business and she
doesn't know where to go to get information to take her to
the next level. It is for women who have a desire to leave
the junk and stop chasing the garbage truck.
Now that you are 'Online' and 'International', how do
you feel about it?
Being online is opening yet another dimension and a
much greater audience. I believe that those who are
gracious enough to read the information, thoughts and
comments on my web site, will gain knowledge, understanding
and insight regarding how to move their lives from level to
level. We are the ones who move ourselves along. Not those
on the outside of our being can do this for us. I am excited
because I enjoy meeting new people and the idea of being
international is one that I believe will prove to be very
beneficial.
Tell us about your latest book.
My latest two books are Wipe The It Off Your But And
Become A Success and Let Your Body Choose Your Mate
are two works that will have women laughing and in tears.
The content of these two books is very personal because when
I write, i always add the "me" element. The
"me" element is what I call telling others my
stories about various failures and how they were turned into
successes. In my "Wipe" book, women will learn how
to take the "cloth" of their ideas and
remove or wipe out all the negative, phony, misleading filth
that keeps them away from their goals. They will learn that
"but" and every other obstacles can and
will be moved out of their way. This book will assist women
in more than the area of business.
Let Your Body Choose Your Mate is a book on a
mission. I began the book as a joke. However, as I started
remembering some of the serious incidents that took place
while I was a Social Worker, to many of the women I had
counseled and mentored over a 25 year period of time, the
laughter ceased. Although very humorous at times, this book
is as serious a work regarding relationships that can be
found on the market today. Women are such unique
creations that they can literally allow their bodies to make
the right choice for them when it comes to finding a mate.
Some of you are saying that this is why you are in the mess
that you are in now. Because of your body. Perhaps you
weren't in tune with your body enough to make a conscious
decision. These two book will revolutionize women's lives.
What is your message for DCW members and other women,
in general?
Women, move past the limits that you have set for
yourself and others have set for you. Get the business
advice that you need and if I can assist you I will. I
didn't mention that I have been doing training in
business for over 15 years with much success. Get a
direction that you want to go in and stay on course no
matter what. Always be aware of who you are taking advice
from or who is volunteering advice. What are they doing and
what have they accomplished that is measurable. For those of
you in ministry, I can say this, you are a Blessing getting
ready to happen for those wise enough to listen to your
wisdom. I have been asked how have I come by so much
knowledge. My answer, I know when to talk and I also know
when to listen. I align myself with people who have the
solution that I am looking to achieve and I stay away from
those who are seeking the same solution that I am. Get a
mentor, someone who is already where you want to go.
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