“I’m not sure if you’re still up there in the clouds, Cupid, but I need to talk to you. I’ve been trying to find my true love for years now, and it’s just not working! Every time I think I will get my happily ever after, I come up empty-handed. I can’t seem to find my Prince Charming! Do you have any tips for me? Otherwise, I think it might be time to give up on love altogether.”

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If this is what your last conversation with Cupid, the tricky guy, was like, then it’s time for you to enter the fantastic realm of singles going all out on self-love this year.

That’s right: no waiting around for someone else to love you and make you feel special (who knows when or if that person is even coming!). You can do that all by yourself!

It’s unnecessary to give sensible reasons for loving oneself, and there needn’t be any correct ones! Even if you love yourself for all the wrong reasons in the world, you may do so. But if it makes you feel any better, here are some great reasons to pamper yourself this Valentine’s Day (or any day, really).

You, Queen, Deserve It!

You’ve always been there for yourself when the world has fallen around you for whatever reasons. You loved yourself and pulled yourself up when nothing made sense. You made yourself a coffee and got through it. Ask yourself, “Who is more deserving of my love than I am?”!

This Valentine’s Day, make it a point to spoil yourself rotten with all the love you’ve been denying yourself. Indulge in a luxurious bubble bath, buy yourself new pair of earrings for Valentine’s Day at Bryan Anthonys, get that Mani/Pedi you always wanted, or book that massage you’ve been eyeing! Let yourself feel special and loved because you absolutely deserve it.

Pamper yourself with love and kindness because it feels so darn amazing! Knowing that your contentment isn’t based on a guy carrying a bouquet and a giant teddy bear is one of the greatest feelings in the world. So keep that chin up, liner on point, and hair looking good! You got this, girl! And while you’re at it, please know that you are worth it – damn right!

Here it Comes – A Session of Silly Love.

You are the one in the world who would never be without ideas for pampering yourself! However, if you haven’t gotten around to making a list of things that may make you incredibly happy, check ours!

A Chocolate Subscription Box – Drooling!

Who wouldn’t love to get a big ol’ box of chocolate every month?! It’s like Christmas morning, your birthday, and Valentine’s Day all rolled into one glorious day! It is the perfect gift if you love your sweet treats, and it definitely raises the endorphin levels!

A Spa Day – Soothing!

What can be more relaxing than spending a day at a spa? You can choose between a french manicure, sensual hot oil massages, or a relaxing Moroccan bath in a hot tub. If you’re feeling really indulgent, go for all of them! A day spent being pampered is always well-deserved.

Tickets to an Event – Loosen Up!

Whether it’s a comedy show, a play, or a music concert, tickets to an event are always an excellent way to let loose and have some fun. The best part is that you can usually find tickets at various price points, so it’s perfect for any budget. And if you don’t want to go alone, grab your bestie and make a night out of it!

A Weekend Away – Adventure Awaits!

If you’re looking for something adventurous, why not book yourself a weekend away? There are tons of unique destinations worldwide that offer everything from skiing in the Alps to lounging on the beach in Greece. Just be sure to plan so you don’t end up spending too much money on last-minute. Heck, even if you do, it’s your money, and you deserve to spend it how you want!

A Night Out – Dance the Night Away!

Put on that little black dress, grab your bestie, and head out for a night on the town! You’re guaranteed to have a memorable time dancing the night away at your favorite club or bar. And if you’re feeling really fancy, why not spring for a few cocktails?

The Faux Fur Jacket – Cuddle Up Cuddle Bunny!

Okay, so this one might be a little bit on the pricey side, but it’s worth it! So snuggle up in your new faux bunny jacket and enjoy all of the compliments you’re sure to get. It’ll keep you warm all through winter and make you feel super luxurious.

Tattoo – A Permanent Reminder!

Get a tattoo that celebrates YOU and your unique personality. It could be something as simple as your favorite quote or a symbol that has personal meaning to you. A permanent reminder of how special and loved you are is something worth considering! After all, it is all about you this Valentine’s Day!

A Solo Candlelight Dinner – Insightful!

Cook yourself for a delicious candlelight dinner and enjoy some quality time by yourself. It might seem like an odd gift, but it can be insightful and relaxing. You’ll get to focus on your thoughts and feelings without interruption, and you’ll learn more about what makes YOU happy. Plus, it’s a great way to show yourself some love!

A Sexy Lingerie – Spice It Up!

A little bit of lingerie never hurt anyone, and it can definitely add some spice to your Valentine’s Day. It doesn’t have to be anything too over the top – just something that makes you feel confident and sexy. You’ll love feeling beautiful and desired, and it’ll make the day more special!

An Unforgettable Experience – Make Memories!

Why not give yourself an unforgettable experience this Valentine’s Day? Something you’ll remember for years to come. It could be anything from skydiving to a weekend away at a luxury resort. The key is to choose something that will make you feel alive and excited. Experiences always make better gifts than things, so go for it!

Makeup- Slay the Day!

Sephora is calling you, my lovely! There’s no excuse not to treat yourself to some new makeup with all the sales going on. Whether you’re into nude lips or dark smokey eyes, there’s something for everyone. And don’t forget skincare! A good face mask is always a great way to relax and feel pampered.

A Velvet Throw Blanket – Snuggle Up!

Wrap yourself in luxury with a velvet throw blanket. It is perfect for cozying up under on a cold winter night. Plus, it’ll add some glamour to your decor. Stay in bed all day watching Netflix and stuffing yourself with your favorite cookies!

There is No ‘One Right Gift by that One Right Person!’

The most important thing is that you make yourself feel special. You don’t need a partner to do that for you. Valentine’s Day doesn’t have to be about receiving gifts from others; it can be about giving to you. So go out and buy yourself something nice!

We hope these ideas help you celebrate Valentine’s Day in style, without feeling down or lonely. Whether you’re single or ‘shipped, love should always be at the center of your celebration. And remember, you are worth it!